In the first part we review some reasons why it is better not to have sex too soon ... Now we will analyze the advantages and disadvantages focused on women.
Profits and losses of premarital sex
"Sex is a special game, if you play when you do not, you lose forever ..."
The irony of the phrase is clear: the sex too serious and if you play with him like a toy, then you lose forever. This applies to both, but places to lose ... the more it loses the girl. As a woman, what do you lose?
1. You lose your purity
One of the greatest values \u200b\u200byou have in the estimation of the boys. This is a central problem, others are secondary. Das your privacy-and the biggest way possible, just because, no reason, nor hearing you play with your love, deceives the other person and yourself. Give your body without your person, receive a body, without receiving the person. This big lie destroys your capacity to love. This is because sexuality is the vehicle through which you give love, and if you use it only to give and receive pleasure, you are degrading, and, worse, demoted you yourself.
2. You lose your virginity.
is the first consequence of sex. How many kids disappear after having sex with a girl? Many. Tené mind that men value very much the virginity of the woman you want to get married, many times more valued than women themselves. If asked, will you marry with a girl not a virgin? Most, in principle, says no, preferring to find one that is "clean." But it is not unusual to have such clarity of thought to ask for sex? Do not you fooling and playing with you?
3. You lose a pure love.
Before that sex appears in the relationship, the romance level is high. Then sexuality into everything and is very difficult to get back ... It is sometimes easier to start a new pure relationship ... If you allow sex is meddling in the relationship, you see your boyfriend in a different and more yet he's going to look differently. Their attention will focus what is more sexually explicit than yourself. Now, they have become accomplices, have sullied love. Sex outside marriage is only "flesh."
4. You lose their respect.
no longer will respect you as before because your body has used and, therefore, we have used to you as an object. Nothing will be like before, now the passion is increasingly present and a very strong presence. And he thinks he has the right to your body and you feel a duty to give ...
5. You lose respect for yourself.
You stop seeing your purity as something sacred ... Now will give your body more easily, because you get used to having sex. Sexuality loses its mystery, becoming something trivial, which means that you may have corrupted.
6. You lose spontaneity in the relationship.
All engaged couples that are experienced when the relationship is pure it is, therefore, more spontaneous, fun, natural, pleasant. Have more fun together. In contrast, when the passion went between the two, and usually to settle, claiming more and more, and did not leave, the relationship loses the girl loses freshness and tranquility, is beginning to be uncomfortable. Do not know what can happen must always be careful to take care not to go so you do not want to happen ...
7. You lose confidence in him.
The first time a guy tries to "move forward" on the privacy of your girlfriend, she feels uncomfortable, not a few see it almost like a rapist. This is a widespread experience. If you have not been strong enough and he got what he wanted ... and if you continue to keep your ideas ... every time you're with him, have some concern that it wants to "move" again ...
8. You lose control of the situation.
Before anything happens, when say 'no', he means 'no'. Then he knows it's a matter of emphasis, because he knows he can accomplish the same thing as last time ... you can make you a toy. It is becoming harder to say no and you lose credibility increasingly.
9. You lose inner freedom
Because sex slaves used for pleasure only. Without purity, you lose self-control: when you use your instincts beyond the control of your higher faculties, for example when sending passion, intelligence and will gradually lose control of them. Your body becomes an insatiable monster in search of meat.
10. You lose the freedom to cut
dating ... If you see that the relationship does not walk, things get complicated. I think shame will not go through with what happened ... and will cost you choose something that perhaps would have no hesitation if not for the lack of purity ... Do not say anything if you're hooked for sensual reasons that do not leave think clearly.
11. You lose the ability to give and receive true love
damage your vehicle because of love. Your sexuality will fire more easily than before and sensuality ... just leaving love apart.
12. You lose the dreams for marriage.
What will be your best wedding present wedding night? The "charming" and "mysterious" sense of sexuality disappears. What will the novelty of marriage?
13. You lose the best test that you have to know if you really want.
If CDs ... from now on, when you find you ... I do not know why you are looking for ... if you want to be with you ... or "needs" to vent their uncontrolled passion ... But if he can overcome temptation and passion because he loves you, then you can be sure that her love is deep and generous.
14. You lose the best test that you have to prove their loyalty.
If you can not overcome their sexual instinct and passion for love ... what can you tell me how you're going to stop when it finds an attractive girl that gives you the opportunity to have an adventure? You should ensure their loyalty and train in it. This is vital.
15. You lose respect from other kids when they know.
Kids do not respect the "easy women." Accurately differentiate between a "girl friendly" and a "respectable" and look for one or another kind of girl according to their purposes. You are the to decide that "model" women want to be.
16. Here you can get pregnant, which will complicate your life ... enough.
This is not something bad, a baby is the best there is: a lovely human being, the problem is the circumstances: sos girl, you're studying, you are not married, do not you keep it ... Having a child does not is bad, but it is taking steps to have him out of wedlock. Does not that sound strange term "unwanted pregnancy? What is the system to have a child? What is the natural consequence of sex? What is the natural consequence of introducing sperm in the vagina of a woman (because basically sex in this)? Does not sound too cheeky to call "unwelcome" the natural consequence of something that two people do it voluntarily? Do not kid yourself, no contraceptives totally "safe." If you're fertile and you have sex, you can get pregnant ...
17. You lose peace ...
Because every time your period is delayed a bit ... distress will be present ... and go out running to make a pregnancy test ...
18. You are exposed to pressure you to do an abortion.
The worst crime a "normal" person can make (as a genocide and the like are not to them): killing an innocent baby who can not defend or even crying. If one day you find out what happened to your mother's head, even for a moment the possibility of abortarte you would die ... in the truest sense of the term. You could have been aborted! Talking about abortion is very easy for candidates to abortion can never share the conversation ... and those who are in favor of abortion can never be aborted ... A normal person would say, "I could never do, would be to kill myself." Seems to solve a problem, but actually kills the victim (the baby, your child) and the victimizer (the mother). Become a murderer does not solve anything. Well, if you get pregnant, your boyfriend can suggest this possibility and pressure you to do it. A very nice, right? Maybe not, but real possibility because there is no completely safe contraception. 40% of which go to the Marie Stopes abortion clinics in England, they blame the pregnancy to contraceptive failure ...
19. You can get a very nice sexual transmitted disease (STD).
If for your boyfriend is so normal to have sex-at least that's what you said to convince you I suppose he was so "normal" sometimes with different girls ... So you should remember that when you have sex, you're having it with all your ex partners, at least as it relates to STDs. Do not forget that 80% of those infected with STDs do not know ... Is not it curious that many feet that other people can get AIDS but they do not? It feels safe enough to have sex, but are scared of getting tested to see if they have AIDS ... Only once is enough, and there is no turning back. Let me tease such a serious issue, but many girls would advise cleaning require a certificate of ETS-date of course, before having sex. Otherwise having sex is an act of dementia (about condoms you can ask one of the many who were "preserved" when you get AIDS).
20. You lose the most powerful weapon for your future daughters education your own life.
What are you going to teach your daughters about purity? Are you going to teach you ashamed you did not want to live? Look the only credible educational tool is an example: people just believe the testimony of life. And do not think I could be lying ...
The irony of the phrase is clear: the sex too serious and if you play with him like a toy, then you lose forever. This applies to both, but places to lose ... the more it loses the girl. As a woman, what do you lose?
1. You lose your purity
One of the greatest values \u200b\u200byou have in the estimation of the boys. This is a central problem, others are secondary. Das your privacy-and the biggest way possible, just because, no reason, nor hearing you play with your love, deceives the other person and yourself. Give your body without your person, receive a body, without receiving the person. This big lie destroys your capacity to love. This is because sexuality is the vehicle through which you give love, and if you use it only to give and receive pleasure, you are degrading, and, worse, demoted you yourself.
2. You lose your virginity.
is the first consequence of sex. How many kids disappear after having sex with a girl? Many. Tené mind that men value very much the virginity of the woman you want to get married, many times more valued than women themselves. If asked, will you marry with a girl not a virgin? Most, in principle, says no, preferring to find one that is "clean." But it is not unusual to have such clarity of thought to ask for sex? Do not you fooling and playing with you?
3. You lose a pure love.
Before that sex appears in the relationship, the romance level is high. Then sexuality into everything and is very difficult to get back ... It is sometimes easier to start a new pure relationship ... If you allow sex is meddling in the relationship, you see your boyfriend in a different and more yet he's going to look differently. Their attention will focus what is more sexually explicit than yourself. Now, they have become accomplices, have sullied love. Sex outside marriage is only "flesh."
4. You lose their respect.
no longer will respect you as before because your body has used and, therefore, we have used to you as an object. Nothing will be like before, now the passion is increasingly present and a very strong presence. And he thinks he has the right to your body and you feel a duty to give ...
5. You lose respect for yourself.
You stop seeing your purity as something sacred ... Now will give your body more easily, because you get used to having sex. Sexuality loses its mystery, becoming something trivial, which means that you may have corrupted.
6. You lose spontaneity in the relationship.
All engaged couples that are experienced when the relationship is pure it is, therefore, more spontaneous, fun, natural, pleasant. Have more fun together. In contrast, when the passion went between the two, and usually to settle, claiming more and more, and did not leave, the relationship loses the girl loses freshness and tranquility, is beginning to be uncomfortable. Do not know what can happen must always be careful to take care not to go so you do not want to happen ...
7. You lose confidence in him.
The first time a guy tries to "move forward" on the privacy of your girlfriend, she feels uncomfortable, not a few see it almost like a rapist. This is a widespread experience. If you have not been strong enough and he got what he wanted ... and if you continue to keep your ideas ... every time you're with him, have some concern that it wants to "move" again ...
8. You lose control of the situation.
Before anything happens, when say 'no', he means 'no'. Then he knows it's a matter of emphasis, because he knows he can accomplish the same thing as last time ... you can make you a toy. It is becoming harder to say no and you lose credibility increasingly.
9. You lose inner freedom
Because sex slaves used for pleasure only. Without purity, you lose self-control: when you use your instincts beyond the control of your higher faculties, for example when sending passion, intelligence and will gradually lose control of them. Your body becomes an insatiable monster in search of meat.
10. You lose the freedom to cut
dating ... If you see that the relationship does not walk, things get complicated. I think shame will not go through with what happened ... and will cost you choose something that perhaps would have no hesitation if not for the lack of purity ... Do not say anything if you're hooked for sensual reasons that do not leave think clearly.
11. You lose the ability to give and receive true love
damage your vehicle because of love. Your sexuality will fire more easily than before and sensuality ... just leaving love apart.
12. You lose the dreams for marriage.
What will be your best wedding present wedding night? The "charming" and "mysterious" sense of sexuality disappears. What will the novelty of marriage?
13. You lose the best test that you have to know if you really want.
If CDs ... from now on, when you find you ... I do not know why you are looking for ... if you want to be with you ... or "needs" to vent their uncontrolled passion ... But if he can overcome temptation and passion because he loves you, then you can be sure that her love is deep and generous.
14. You lose the best test that you have to prove their loyalty.
If you can not overcome their sexual instinct and passion for love ... what can you tell me how you're going to stop when it finds an attractive girl that gives you the opportunity to have an adventure? You should ensure their loyalty and train in it. This is vital.
15. You lose respect from other kids when they know.
Kids do not respect the "easy women." Accurately differentiate between a "girl friendly" and a "respectable" and look for one or another kind of girl according to their purposes. You are the to decide that "model" women want to be.
16. Here you can get pregnant, which will complicate your life ... enough.
This is not something bad, a baby is the best there is: a lovely human being, the problem is the circumstances: sos girl, you're studying, you are not married, do not you keep it ... Having a child does not is bad, but it is taking steps to have him out of wedlock. Does not that sound strange term "unwanted pregnancy? What is the system to have a child? What is the natural consequence of sex? What is the natural consequence of introducing sperm in the vagina of a woman (because basically sex in this)? Does not sound too cheeky to call "unwelcome" the natural consequence of something that two people do it voluntarily? Do not kid yourself, no contraceptives totally "safe." If you're fertile and you have sex, you can get pregnant ...
17. You lose peace ...
Because every time your period is delayed a bit ... distress will be present ... and go out running to make a pregnancy test ...
18. You are exposed to pressure you to do an abortion.
The worst crime a "normal" person can make (as a genocide and the like are not to them): killing an innocent baby who can not defend or even crying. If one day you find out what happened to your mother's head, even for a moment the possibility of abortarte you would die ... in the truest sense of the term. You could have been aborted! Talking about abortion is very easy for candidates to abortion can never share the conversation ... and those who are in favor of abortion can never be aborted ... A normal person would say, "I could never do, would be to kill myself." Seems to solve a problem, but actually kills the victim (the baby, your child) and the victimizer (the mother). Become a murderer does not solve anything. Well, if you get pregnant, your boyfriend can suggest this possibility and pressure you to do it. A very nice, right? Maybe not, but real possibility because there is no completely safe contraception. 40% of which go to the Marie Stopes abortion clinics in England, they blame the pregnancy to contraceptive failure ...
19. You can get a very nice sexual transmitted disease (STD).
If for your boyfriend is so normal to have sex-at least that's what you said to convince you I suppose he was so "normal" sometimes with different girls ... So you should remember that when you have sex, you're having it with all your ex partners, at least as it relates to STDs. Do not forget that 80% of those infected with STDs do not know ... Is not it curious that many feet that other people can get AIDS but they do not? It feels safe enough to have sex, but are scared of getting tested to see if they have AIDS ... Only once is enough, and there is no turning back. Let me tease such a serious issue, but many girls would advise cleaning require a certificate of ETS-date of course, before having sex. Otherwise having sex is an act of dementia (about condoms you can ask one of the many who were "preserved" when you get AIDS).
20. You lose the most powerful weapon for your future daughters education your own life.
What are you going to teach your daughters about purity? Are you going to teach you ashamed you did not want to live? Look the only credible educational tool is an example: people just believe the testimony of life. And do not think I could be lying ...
What do you get?
addition of a few minutes of pleasure and nice feelings, not it imagine something else.
Do you think it worth it?
Sex is not a game, is a serious matter. Implies love and life. It is the instrument to love and to make that eternal love, projecting into new beings that are the fruit of that love.
Author: Paul Writes
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