months ago I wanted to write this post for my friend's club # Twitter breastfeeding.
First of all I tell them that the pregnancy goes well, my prince charming with the Muses is captured and only let out a once in a while to go out to smell the flowers.
The princess still has the love for his brother when the fairy comes and insists that it was a lot of waiting and that child must leave early.
of them want to talk now and as the bond of love with my daughters is getting stronger, but also very important, because a newspaper published in x for me not to mention the case where breastfeeding attack and trite thing because to me the attacks are a thing of the day day.
q I remember the day my debut as a mother, 11 years ago and that as it was the most beautiful experiences in my life, in life there are many, make you mother is another thing! cooked separately. That day I thought I was super arms ready to take my baby, after a delicious breakfast I went to the doctor and I found out that there had to be operated a few hours for my princess (at that time even call it that) not suffer, without going into details of the particular matter q tell them born to a mother more than doped arms to shake caused by anesthesia prevented me from having my hands free to touch and hold her properly in its place was something like crucified, approached me and I barely had to touch two fingers of his left foot, for my fingers most beautiful in the world are those, her, love her feet and on one occasion I said, everyone thinks they have eyes beautiful and no, she's not the photography, and show you some day.
Anyway, after that contact had to wait 16 hours to see her again, although his father brought me videos of her every hour while in the incubator, was content with that, what else could be done. And one of the things I know is worried that time may feed, but the first time I saw her live and in living color, I could only touch it, smell it, knowing the small that had been planned to be 8 months in my body, because the princess had been fed by the nurses with a bottle, the first error and the beginning of a little torture, the next was being taken away a few hours later brought it with hunger and wondering if I was going to feed, so, asking for q imagine the experience would not give for more, in my city is common to see women with large nipples and maternity bags and at that time, the strange is to see a mother breastfeeding her child. Try to feed
but she just knew mourn and try to take my chest and that all publications had not previously read one that said that can do when the premature baby is fed with bottle and then want to breastfeed.
For her it was so difficult for me even more, painful, sad, desperate q can not do something so simple was in the books. In my family had only seen one or two further occasions feeding a baby I grew up with the idea that it was normal to give children milk formula through a bottle, so when trying to feed my little all read it Automatic was forgotten, I asked for help to nurses who were women of no more than 20 years of age in his life which had a child, q so I just said, because WEAR and already, the rest do it alone, almost forced her, because it is untrue, not to one less after so easy to get food from a plastic bottle .
Cracks? if many, I know what it's like, sore nipples and molded to your need for your little mouth? also what it is, is pain, sleepless nights, but the joy of having fed the little creature with only my milk worth the price, never cambiare those moments even for the ease of stir a little water and dust.
Princess sucked with great force, pushing his lower lip to feed, but there was always enough, though it does not seem to remove it, she never go hungry, it was very tiny since he was born a month because I miss my womb to mature and people (many people) told me that she did not gained weight because I did not give a formula lactea to make her strong and allowed to fatten
She slept during the day and spent all night awake for 3 months the little one fell asleep at 6 am after hearing the disc 5 times Tarkan until one day it occurred to me sleep it between my husband and me.
that time had already found the LLL to read anything about them but did not know Cole to echo I came across LACMAT for us 3 (My husband, the princess and I) was a lifesaver to have home PC month and a half after the birth small princess and my knowledge lacmateros friends and began the ordeal of being lactivistas , it was not folly was for knowledge, I would give up despite the criticism from my family because I feel bad mother and even immoral to discover your chest give your baby the best you can give after love, despite criticism from people on the street, I continued to breastfeed exclusively, without nipples, had many eyes, now only see as eyes of ignorance, doctors told me that they no longer breastfed after 6 months, others were saying I they were just 15 minutes on each side and fill with formula I thank God for having placed in my path two men who supported me:
My husband supported me every time I judged in words, deeds or looks, I said to her daughter while standing breastfeeding because they give you a chair if you show cleavage, but not if you a bare breast feeding your child, a man who was with me, helped me and was so patient during my maternity start and is a great father to his daughters. The other support
I had my baby's pediatrician, who at all times respect my desire to breastfeed, by Dr Cecilio Lopez why I remember his words of each month with my two daughters in their check-ups "your daughters are not business, never get sick every day are more healthy"
So we wanted to establish Prolacmat , someday we'll make it when funds permit and is easy to open our role in supporting breastfeeding because there is still some way to go because it's easier to promote and support breastfeeding mothers if they want to criticize those who can not or will not. For that you have freedom of choice and everyone is free to choose how to raise their children as they see fit
With the child was different, everything was more simple, on the birth of her sister decided not to have more chest, so that at 2 years 3 months with no problems I leave it on the other hand the newborn, breastfeeding had a prolonged up to almost 3
years I still remember the words of the fairy saying " Echites " in a pleading, timid or princess calling for his "take a thousand" hard and demanding, translated by if not understood to cum and Milk sleep respectively.
I'm preparing to embark on the adventure again with incredible certainty that everything will go well and again I will have the opportunity to feed my son and his sisters, as they should be, as nature has given us the privilege of being mammals, lactivistas and proud to be
Everyone is free to decide, remember that what we are deciding is the welfare of our children, not the color of fashionable attire, do so with a calm mind and open heart.
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